The surrogacy process for gay couples can be complex. While the process for surrogacy in itself is in-depth, for Gay couples, there are a few extra steps to consider. So let’s dive right in!

Step 1: Decide if you wish to work with a Surrogacy Agency or  do an Independent Journey
Most couples begin with a surrogacy agency, which helps match them with an egg donor and a surrogate, and provides support throughout the journey. Others choose to go independent, often with the help of a known surrogate, such as a friend or relative.

Step 2: Egg Donation
An egg donor is selected based on various factors — from health history and physical traits to education and personality. One partner (or sometimes both, in different cycles) may contribute sperm, allowing for a biological link to the child.

Step 3: Legal Agreements
Legal contracts are essential to protect the rights of all parties. They outline responsibilities, compensation, and parental rights, ensuring clarity and security before any medical procedures begin.

Step 4: Embryo Transfer and Pregnancy
After the embryos are created through IVF, one is transferred to the surrogate. The intended parents are typically closely involved during the pregnancy, attending appointments, offering support, and preparing for the arrival of their baby.

Step 5: Birth and Beyond
At the end of this journey is a moment of profound joy: the birth of a child. For many gay couples, it’s also a deeply emotional validation of their commitment and love — not just to each other, but to the family they’ve created.

Remember, not every journey is the same, and you will want someone with experience and knowledge to assist you along your journey. We at Southern Surrogacy are proud to have helped gay families build and complete their families over the years. If you have any questions or are not sure where to start, please reach out to us. We are here to help!